Hahahahahahahaha Cranky! Thank you. And just for the record I’m sure the girl in the first quote was saying exactly what the second quote was only she was saying it in a nicer way. Hahahaha.
So you! For me? It’s about forgiving so that I can move on. I have no time nor energy for grudges or hurt feelings. I forgive and remember why I had to. Kinda the s cons, I’d say.
Ah, Jo, Jo, Jo.. Ya’ know what I *do* have time for? Pulling triggers. Takes a split second. Before he hits the ground I’ve moved on. Hahahahahahahahaha!
I agree Lily – about the unforgivable part. I have difficulty forgiving grown adults who are well past the age of knowing better and make the choice to do hurtful, mean spirited things, knowing full well it is hurtful.
Those are two perfect quotes, Karen. The sweet forgiving dreamer quote (to find a guy who actually dreams with you, that would be so special, sigh, like to know where you find those outside of romance novels!), and the forgiving you but you’re still an asshole quote. That second one would be a true story for me too!
The second one… in a casual relationship perfect. Fade away. Bye Felicia!
In a serious close relationship where let’s say a spouse, close friend or family member has seriously betrayed me. That’s far more complicated and deep. I’m gonna dwell the shit out of that mess until I’m indifferent to that person. That’s part of the grieving process for me. I never forget they are an asshole and they never get to be part of my life again.
Love this… So sweet…
True story…
I tend to forgive but it’s really hard to forget, that’s for sure.
Both are difficult for me.
Oh, man, that second one brought back some memories!
It’s true of so many people Debbie..
Ha….
oops, had help hitting buttons~ The Ha is from me!
Hahahaha. Nice. :)
Two sides to everything, but I think this time the devil gets the points. :)
Agreed S.J. Agreed…
That first one wasn’t quite you, but that second one is spot on.
Have a fabulous day. ☺
Once upon a time when I was swooning over my very own “Bo Duke” the first one was hopelessly me.. And then life.. ;)
Yes, yes it is!!! Lol
Hahahaha. Crazy man. :D
Life summarized perfectly once again!
I love the way you tie the idyllic with the real life!
Hahahahahahahaha Cranky! Thank you. And just for the record I’m sure the girl in the first quote was saying exactly what the second quote was only she was saying it in a nicer way. Hahahaha.
So you! For me? It’s about forgiving so that I can move on. I have no time nor energy for grudges or hurt feelings. I forgive and remember why I had to. Kinda the s cons, I’d say.
Ah, Jo, Jo, Jo.. Ya’ know what I *do* have time for? Pulling triggers. Takes a split second. Before he hits the ground I’ve moved on. Hahahahahahahahaha!
Although I find it easier to forgive us I grow older, some things still remain unforgivable.
I agree Lily – about the unforgivable part. I have difficulty forgiving grown adults who are well past the age of knowing better and make the choice to do hurtful, mean spirited things, knowing full well it is hurtful.
Absolutely! And that’s when karma (hopefully) kicks in.
Those are two perfect quotes, Karen. The sweet forgiving dreamer quote (to find a guy who actually dreams with you, that would be so special, sigh, like to know where you find those outside of romance novels!), and the forgiving you but you’re still an asshole quote. That second one would be a true story for me too!
I know JLil.. Wouldn’t it be wonderful if the guy in the first quote were for real?
The second one… in a casual relationship perfect. Fade away. Bye Felicia!
In a serious close relationship where let’s say a spouse, close friend or family member has seriously betrayed me. That’s far more complicated and deep. I’m gonna dwell the shit out of that mess until I’m indifferent to that person. That’s part of the grieving process for me. I never forget they are an asshole and they never get to be part of my life again.
Same here Tracie!